Mimeme:Baking

 

Baking is not an easy task despite owning a fantastic recipe book nor long-held experiences. There is a lot of rules and regulations to adhere otherwise your bake would be a real waste and disheartening too. Apart from whisking the right proportion of ingredients, the bakers also have to be sensitive to adapt the right techniques to yield the right consistency with absolute taste. Similarly, life demands a good balance of physically and emotionally to thrive through. This may turn difficult when handling a relationship or family regardless of who they are, either parent, siblings, spouse, children or whoever you love most. Sometimes you may hurt or upset the association subconciously or unintentionally which lead to unwanted turbulence. Hence result in loss of peace and stress. Like how an unplanned bake goes wrong.

One may blame any consequences or person causing such a situation without weighing the real reason or analyzing if the person themself are the culprit. Roughness in a relationship could be due to:

• a misunderstanding over an event without stepping forward for clarification
• drastically taken away by emotions
• lack of skill to handle a situation
• adhering to a wrong personality or personality mismatch
• lack of moral and virtues

However, the problem does not go unnoticed since solutions appear before problem provided one seeks when needed as follows:

• approach the person concerned to speak or share your perturbation
• keep emotions in check, seek medical attention if needed or practice meditation
• learn to control difficult circumstances in a more comprehensive manner
• analyze a person well before committing into serious bonding; most relevant for couples
• build good moral background by exploring good activities or sourcing from a good reading

We do not have to be too hard on this life journey since it is always a mix of happy and sorrow moments like how all mixes in a bake. You will be appreciated for being soft and cursed if burnt out, just like bakes also!

Personally, I experienced friction in relationship which put me great distress. However, I was very blessed to embrace a good support system from my family and friends which slowly saved me from drowning into the negative impacts or consequences. Listed above are some of the solution which brings me back into the right track. Most importantly, self-reflection helps me to identify the cause and ways to overcome them effectively. Ego and denial are the two devils that push us into the pessimistic idea in a relationship so the self-realization and self-reflection are crucial to tackling them.